Splivex Guides
Practical guides for becoming better at conversations, disagreement, persuasion and social confidence. No motivational filler — each one ends with something to do in your next conversation.
Confidence
Hesitating, backing down, fear of looking stupid, speaking under pressure.
Communication
Saying what you mean, listening properly, asking, explaining, difficult conversations.
Persuasion
Making a case, understanding the other position, changing minds without forcing.
Disagreement
Staying calm, handling criticism, admitting you were wrong, arguing without fighting.
How to stay calm when someone disagrees with you
The part where your heart rate goes up and the sentences get worse. What actually helps.
How to handle criticism without getting defensive
The first three seconds decide whether you learn something or spend an hour defending yourself.
How to admit you were wrong without losing confidence
Changing your mind is treated as a defeat. It is the only way anybody ever gets less wrong.
How to talk to someone who strongly disagrees with you
Not a debate to be won. What to actually do when the gap is wide and the topic matters.
Social skills
Starting conversations, strangers, awkward moments, reading a room.
Business
Negotiating, objections, professional disagreement, being clear under pressure.
Mental barriers
Overthinking, fear of rejection, needing to be right, avoiding the conversation.